Lately, my curiosity has brought me to service submission. There are many different ways to serve someone, and it’s all up to personal preference between the server and the one being served. Probably the most commonly talked about ways to serve someone are performing household duties such as cooking and cleaning, boot-blacking, tea or coffee service, cigar service, and so on.
Now, like I said it’s deeply personal to those participating in the relationship. You can give service in sooo many ways. For my Sir and I, we have been experimenting with personal grooming, food service, and things he needs help with. I will go more into this later. For now, I will reflect on what service is for me. Service is seeing the little smile on my partner’s face when I am bringing him food he didn’t ask for. Service is the “thank you honey”’s and the “good boy”’s I get when I do a good job. It’s the break-out smile I wear when he lays his hand on my head and tells me he loves me. For me, service is more than just being told what to do and simply obeying. I provide service for my Sir because I want to. Because it makes me feel good. I have a naturally compassionate nature and my love language is already rooted in acts of service. So, naturally, the act of serving my Sir is not a difficult task for me. My point is, I actually enjoy serving my partner, and if I didn’t, I wouldn’t be doing it. Some of the things my Sir and I have been implementing into our routine are that I act as his personal groomer. I wash, condition, moisturize and brush his beard. I twist his hair after I have put product into it. I will shave for him when he requests it. Some tasks that lean more toward domestic chores: I am to make him a hot drink and meal whenever he should want it. I am to do any chores he leaves for me by the end of the day. I am to keep the bedroom tidy, and take care of the animal's food and drink. As we continue to move through this process of experimentation, I expect to take on more tasks for my Sir. I can’t wait to find out where this journey will take us! Here are some resources from around the web I have found to be useful:
Thanks for reading! Have a different opinion than me? Do you do things another way? Want to discuss our perspectives? I’m glad to respond to respectful emails over at [email protected]! ~ Theia
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AuthorMy name is Theia, a non binary submissive with a growing passion for kink and BDSM. |